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Why do some international marriages end on divorce and what are causes of it? Probably somebody will point on the cultural difference, language problems and so on that produce misunderstanding between people. But all that problems are not uncommon in the marriages between people of the same nation, who speaking same language can not understand each other (or are not able, or just simple do not want).

Even reading through the articles about divorces, that are written by Russian and Western specialists, I have not noticed so big difference in causes (only in rating of causes) between international divorce and “same nation” divorce. And we all know the reasons of divorce very often involve a combination of factors and can be quite complicated.

Why I have started this thread? I remember a Russian documentary about International dating and marriage “The American tears of Russian wives”. I have found the documentary in the Internet and watched it again.

In spite of the fact that the documentary is three years old it can be a good warning for a people who are involved in international dating (and even not international), the warning about the most guileful enemy of people (men and women) in the dating process – delusions (fantasy and self-deception), that can cause not only divorce but more terrible tragedy in the future.

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